March 2012
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January 2012
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Shame: woman on woman violence →
Charlie Glickman’s blog article about women’s use of shame against other women.
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Biblical Female Ejaculation →
contrary to modern confusion on the topic, people in ancient times and medieval times and people outside of Europe knew/know about female orgasm and thought/think it’s crucial for a woman to get pregnant.
Sex-positive Feminism, Queer Islam and Street... →
I just uncovered this link round up post in my drafts, so better late than never!
Sex-positive feminist talks about defending herself from non sex-positive feminists I might have issues with…
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Yes, I have a job. In fact I have about a dozen... →
Article written about all the work that goes into performing also very much applies to porn and adult entertainment.
December 2011
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Solutions for Sex Worker Burn Out →
It’s good to have a reminder ever now and again
November 2011
1 post
Link →
I’ve always been shocked by how the sex-positive community can be so hostile towards sex workers and so very sex work negative. Maybe I’ve just been a sex worker for too long, but I withdrew from…
October 2011
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Win Cash + Sex Toys from Babeland →
Subscribe to Babeland’s mailing list between now and Dec 31 and with the Minna Ola vibe plus $100 cash a month for a year! I would really love to see a cyber-dyke.net fan win this one. Current newsletter subscribers are already entered.
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Missy Mariposa's Reference Ribbon Project →
For sex workers and everyone who wants to keep sex workers safe
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HuffPo: San Francisco Sex Workers Speak Out In St.... →
“Sex workers go to work, come home, take care of their children — just like everybody else,” reads the poster on Muni. Below the quote is a portrait of a smiling woman with a tagline reading: “Someone you know is a sex worker.”
This poster is one of many included in St. James Infirmary’s new media campaign promoting the rights of local sex workers. A...
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Medicine: Woman nearly dies from allergic reaction... →
Beware nut allergists! If you pick up people in high-class bars that have real mixed nuts, be sure to use protection! Doctors have documented a case of a 20-year-old woman whose nut allergy was triggered after her partner had eaten the nuts just before they had been intimate - making the Brazil…
Support our Friends at the Phoenix Goddess Temple →
I fell in love with Tracy Elise of the Phoenix Goddess Temple at the Desiree Alliance convention in Las Vegas 2010. I really wanted to go visit the temple and spend time with these wonderful people,…
September 2011
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Babelube Naturals →
There are a lot of good lubes available, but Natural Babelube is head and shoulders above the rest. First of all, it’s made with botanical ingredients, including a lot of organics. It’s vegan, and…
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Research on Porn Produced by Women →
If you’re in the San Francisco area there is a research study about women-produced pornography and female viewers. Take a look at the call on GoodVibes and I would love to hear how it goes!
Brief Link Round Up- Porn and Feminism →
I know that this movie has been around for a few years, but if you haven’t seen it take a look at Orgasm Inc. It’s about the medical institution’s treatment of women’s sexuality. It’s a lot to…
August 2011
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The Dark Arts: 15 Horror Films for Lesbians -... →
Brief Link Round Up- Lesbian News →
Den Mother removed from Boy Scouts because she’s a lesbian Considering the recent history of gays in Scouts I’m not shocked that they’re going after lesbians now too.
Zanele Muholi: Mapping…
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Dear Coke Talk: On your virginity. →
dearcoketalk:
How do you know when to give up your virginity? People talk about how it’s a special gift to have but I don’t really see what’s so special about it or who to give it up to. I’m probably not ready to have sex if I’m still asking these questions right?
Virginity isn’t a special gift, because your vagina isn’t a commodity…
Call for Participants: Research on How People Talk... →
Not sure if they’re still looking for responses, but if you use lube please drop them a line.
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Meaning in Making Porn
Once upon a time in the year 2000 darkPlay.net and cyber-dyke.net were on the cutting edge of cultural changes in the adult industry with a group of women making porn for other women, images of real lesbian and dyke sex, alternative looking women, alternative body types and sizes, butch models, older women, women’s perspective on fetishes and talent managing the sites. We’re still not...
July 2011
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“Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone”,...”
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Lesbian stories on NPR →
Workplace Atmosphere Keeps Many In The Closet by Jennifer Ludden Not specifically about lesbians but certainly something that all LBGT folks have to face. I don’t know if straight folks realize…
Brief Link Round Up →
Impure Lesbians of Sodom
Compared with women who are totally straight, women who are slightly bisexual are more likely to have tried various sex acts with men. In fact, compared with totally…
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Tasty Trixie strips down to just her necktie →
She’s not wearing much to begin with, but take a look at one of our favorite amateur hotties with a big fat necktie between her bouncy round breasts
Image and Representation in Porn →
A while back I read two excellent blog posts on representation and image in the adult industry. The first blog post is by a well known vocal and active sex worker Amanda Brooks and the other is by…
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OMFG disabled people have sex!? →
I know, shocking! Folks with disabilities are human and have all the same human needs and desires, including sex and sex ed resources.
June 2011
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“Louisiana’s era of forcing certain convicted sex workers to register as sex...”
– Justice Roars: Sex Offender Registration for Sex Workers Ends in Louisiana
amazing news—so wonderful to read!!!
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May 2011
4 posts
Vintage Lesbian Fetish Erotica →
April 2011
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Feelmore510: Feelmore510: Two for the Road →
feelmore510:
Upcoming Feelmore510 Event: April 17th 11am-1pm Open; 6pm-9pm Re-Release of Tight Places: a drop of color which is up for award at the Feminist Porn Award in Toronto, Canada
We are excited over here @Feelmore510 because we are due to get a nice shipment in from Wet For Her which is a French…
Blossom Organics Pure Pleasure Arousal Gel →
Blossom Organics Arousal Gel is not a product that I would normally choose for myself. I’ve never actually used any products to increase arousal, because most of them are scary. I know that there are…
More Change at Cyber-dyke Studios →
The desktop computer that I bought when I started video editing for Cyber-dyke finally kicked the bucket. It was about six years old and friends kept trying to convince me that I needed a new…
March 2011
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Lesbian Kama Sutra →
Frequent visitors to CyberDyke will have noticed that for quite a while now we have been featuring a link to Lesbian Kama Sutra, a site run by a team of four delightful women in Europe.
LKS, as…
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Poem: How to Make Love to a Trans Person →
Cory Silverberg: When it Comes to Sex, Are Your... →
Sins Invalid: performance art about sex and disability playing in San Francisco (someone ask me out on a date!)
Lesbian Kama Sutra →
Frequent visitors to CyberDyke will have noticed that for quite a while now we have been featuring a link to Lesbian Kama Sutra, a site run by a delight woman in the UK.
LKS, as it is…
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